Good advice from a Christian perspective on this Sunday afternoon, because Christians are not to get even with those who have done wrong against them. Believe me, I know that is not easy, but we are to leave it up to the Lord when it comes to consequences for the evil doer. In the book of Romans, it tells me not to return evil for evil and to overcome evil with good. See Romans 12:17-21. It will do you much good to put your energies into getting even with those who have helped you and not getting even with those who have hurt you but to even help them.